I live my life giving 220%. How is that possible? Statistically speaking it isn’t, and supposedly societal norms say the same thing; however, I am doing it. I am giving 110% to my professional life and 110% to my personal life. Despite popular belief, I am defying these statistics. Societal norms tell me this is not possible. Relationships are an integral part of who I am. Nevertheless, my academic commitment and motivation also drive a significant component in my life. In a society where we are supposed to choose between a career and a family, I am struggling. I struggle because my heart tells me one thing, and society tells me another. I struggle because as a college student pursuing an ambitious career, I am often reminded how I cannot have both a family and this career. Although it is becoming more common to balance a professional career and have a family, it is still not considered the “norm”. Wanting a family of my own someday, but also an established career, I am breaking the norm of societal expectations. Where does that leave me and where do I go from here?
Hi, my name is Josephine Jones and I am leaning in. I am leaning in because I am a woman, a hard working one too. I am a student. I am a daughter. I am a friend. I often don’t believe in myself. I find doubts among my capabilities, which can cloud my opportunities in some cases. I have a big heart. I make mistakes. I have a future of goals and dreams and ambitions. So why am I leaning in? I am leaning in because I can be all of these things and more. I am leaning in because I want to inspire others to lean in too. Lean In came into my life, and my entire perspective changed. Trying to convince myself on a day to day basis that I can do both is mentally exhausting, to say the least. Despite the support from family and friends, it can be hard for others to understand the situation I am in. I decided to Lean In and start a circle at the University of Minnesota. If you are not familiar with Lean In (http://leanin.org/), it is national organization based on Sheryl Sandberg’s book, Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead. Amongst everything Sandberg inspires, she inspired me to bring a circle to campus; a circle to create a community of aspiring college students empowering women to achieve their goals. I am ecstatic to see where this supportive community takes me this year, and for the rest of my personal and professional life. As for defying the odds, I am going to continue living life 220% and encourage you to do the same. It is possible, and all it takes is the will to make it work. Some days I play hard and work harder, while others I work hard and play harder. Life is a complicated puzzle of trying to figure out how the pieces fit for you in your life, considering what you have and where you are. I finally feel like my puzzle, although chaotic and disorganized, fits together. I invite you to lean in and go after whatever has been on your mind or in your heart. Lean in and discover how your puzzle pieces fit together. Lean in to maximize your potential. Lean in to create the life you want to live.
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